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KenVincent
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    08/28/09 at 07:39 AM
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The Big Questions

 

1.      What qualifies a person to be considered "a great man" or "a great woman"?

 

2.      To what degree must a person's record coincide with your personal values for you to recognize that person's achievements as valuable?

 

3.      To what degree should a major failing in a person's past color the final assessment of that person?

 

4.      Under what conditions is a willingness to work with people with whom you disagree in basic philosophy the right thing to do? When is it better to accept no progress at all rather than a compromise that includes features you don't like?

 

5.      What does it mean to call a body of work one's legacy?

 


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    08/28/09 at 01:28 PM
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1.  A 'great' man or woman is, to me, someone who has a loving and concerned persona.  Someone who thinks of the welfare of others and is generous in loving attention to the needs of others would be a  great man or woman in my estimation. 
2.  A person's achievements may be valuable despite my sole evaluation of their values and achievements.  Personally, I value all efforts on anyone's part around the world who acts in selfless love on behalf of others.  Whatever is done in love is valuable and honorable to me. 
3.  I believe in redemption and love stories of redemption.  So, although many of us falter, make mistakes and do harm in our lifetimes, if we awaken and seek redemption and spend our remaining lifetimes in service to others, then I believe all of the angels in heaven sing.  God loves a redeemed sinner.  We can look to St. Paul as an example of this.
4.  I believe that it is often the right thing to do to work with those with whom we disagree.  It is important to be visible with our principles and values and to stand up for our values publicly.  However, it is a mistake to close our minds and not consider the differing opinions of our fellows.  We are all capable of opening our minds and stretching if we allow ourselves to do so.  It becomes the wrong thing to do when someone's life may be injured in any way because of the compromise.  One must always do battle against overt evil.  Evil must never be allowed to take over without a fight from us as individuals. 
5.  Our legacy is the sum total of all that we have done with our life's energies.  No moment of life spent in service to others can be discounted  We are all complicated quilts representing our various efforts to grow as human beings, to love more deeply and to reach out beyond ourselves. 

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    08/29/09 at 05:15 PM
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 1.  I think a great person can be recognized by one’s accomplishments and impact on history.  For example:  I think John Kennedy’s place is determined by the character of his vision and the people who shared it; his brother Edward, by his passionate legislative accomplishments with others.

2.  My personal values are influenced by the accomplishments of others who are models, mentors, teachers, voices, prophets, and visionaries.  As I grow and encounter other such people, I hope my values are strengthened, altered and expanded.  One value is John Kennedy’s “Profiles in Courage” of congressmen who went against the grain and stood up for principles over party.  A good later example, I think, is Senator Howard Baker, who in 1978 supported Jimmy Carter’s Panama Canal Treaty.  I have a long personal letter from Senator Baker to my Grandmother explaining and defending his position:  “Decisions on the B-1 bomber, the MX Missile and SALT negotiations will, in the long run, be far more important to our national security than allowing Panama to operate the Canal in the year 2000,” he concluded. 

3.  “To err is human, to forgive divine,” says the Essays on Criticism.  I think that failings can strengthen people.  For John Kennedy, it was his fragile health that awakened him to his responsibilities as a Senator and visionary.  For Edward Kennedy, it was first Chappaquidick(sp) but later, in the political arena, his defeat by Jimmy Carter, partly because of the first.  Ironically, Carter’s defeat by Ronald Reagan and the ascendency of the Republican Party impelled Kennedy to take a new tack, working with the winds and not against them.  This carried him far in rough waters.  In the words of Tennyson he said, “the dream shall never die.” 

4.  It is a delicate balance to find the right path, to find synthesis and consensus, to set aside pride and personal security for the greater, longer, shared interest.  At some point, one may have to draw a line, to say “it is enough,” and to find a different approach.  It was Lyndon Johnson who had the courage, despite his failings, to seek true equality at great cost, including the demise of his dominant solid-south Democratic Party and the rise and 40-year reign of the “Southern-strategy,” “law and order” Republican Party which, in my humble opinion, disavowed its great principles of national unity, civil rights, conservation, and public education, public health care and public service in favor of the politics of division, hate, greed, fear, fraud, complaint, blame, and now anger. 

5.  In the case of Edward Kennedy, he will be measured by the depth and breadth of his legislation (his vision), particularly on the crucial matter of health care where he favored national health insurance.  It will be a true litmus test to see if the mass media will cover the substance of his position amid the cacophony and confusion, the sound and fury it has created and placed at the feet of President Obama while idolizing the image of Senator Kennedy.  I can only hope that the vision and the dream of national health insurance will never die and that one day will triumph and be a true reflection of America’s value in the world.

 


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